BDSM Myths Busted

BDSM Myths Busted

While we all have been thinking of a way to spice up our sex life, we might have thought of BDSM once in a while! Additionally, with the release of more and more erotic novella in the unchartered territory, you might have become curious about BDSM and the lifestyle. Thus, myths have also erupted amidst that. So, here are some myths associated with BDSM for you to have a look at

Fetish

Well, for most people, BDSM is a fetish, an idea which is to be only tried out in bed. Sadly folks, that is not true! BDSM is a lifestyle which you choose to practice and follow day in and day out. Depending on your trust level and relation strength, you can also try it outside the bedroom.

Men are Dominant By Nature

One more most common misconception about BDSM is that in a BDSM relationship, a man is always dominant, and a woman is always submissive. This is absolutely baseless, and can be perceived as a myth. In BDSM relationship, just like any other relationship, you can choose who has the say in the relationship. You can always have a mistress (female dominant) instead of a master (male dominant) in BDSM.

BDSM Means No Cuddling

Well, for once, you can think of BDSM as a lifestyle, rather than an option of having sex in your partner. If you are a dominant, in a BDSM relationship, you need to take absolute care of your submissive, and that may include cuddling, caressing, and even caring for your partner emotionally.

Trust me, BDSM does not always mean chains, whips, and hot wax torture. Sometimes it means love, passion like fire and ice, cuddling, and even your own plain non – kinky sex. After all, it’s your relationship, and you can very easily use variations in it.